Let me be of some assistance:
1) Since we have both confessed to having a strong dislike of smoking yet somehow find this insanely hot, here’s a smoking picture for you. I want to say something obscene about being held between his lips.
2) Do you prefer dapper!Ben? Here he is in an appropriately jaunty hat looking delicious enough to eat.
3) Or perhaps scruffy!Ben is more your type? Besides looking posh in a hat and coat he can throw on the hoodie and jeans and still make your blood rush. Magical, that man is.
4) Can’t say I mind his curls, but the scruffy short hair and ridiculous sweater he’s wearing only accents the aristocratic curve of his cheekbones. Observe.
5) Then, of course, we have Sherlock!Ben. He can deduce me any day. He’s currently working on the case of the smoldering eyes. His smoldering eyes…
There, feeling any better?